A little over a week ago I quit my 5-days a week, 12-hour shift job to venture back into the world of self-employment. It was a move that many people wouldn't normally make. Here's how the journey unfolded....
I had been my job for 9 years and for 7 of those years I had been cooped up in an office with no windows and no flexibility. Why did I stay so long? To be honest with you I got comfortable with the steady money. Even though I knew I could earn way more, I simply got complacent.
I had made several attempts to get back to freedom but nothing ever panned out for me. I tried blogging, selling beats, real estate investing, and even getting another job. None of these amounted to anything especially since I couldn't stay focused long enough because of the long job hours.
Even though I was in a leadership position, my self-esteem had gotten really low. I gained at least 40 pounds and I developed sinus problems and all sorts of body aches. I dread going in to the long work hours almost every day.
I decided to use my affirmations and creative visualization to move me forward. After going 3 years without my own vehicle. I was blessed with the car I had visualized almost to the exact detail and some extras included. The way the car manifested was nothing short of a miracle because I had definitely reached my breaking point at that time. The fact that the car showed up 1 week before my birthday made it even better.
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| The Whip |
I was on Cloud 9 for a while and once again I began to get complacent doing my 60 hour per week job. I knew something was happening but I didn't know how or when I would make my transition. I knew I wasn't supposed to retire there because I knew there was something better and although I was pretty decent at what I was doing, it was not fulfilling and my family and I were just miserable.
Spirit lead me to a book called "Practical Intuition" by Laura Day and I began to work the exercises in the book. Things began to move fast! I began to listen to my intuition more and more as I went through the book.
One morning as I was heading off to work, I got a "hunch" to take a book to work with me called "The 4-Hour Work Week" by Tim Ferris. I had learned that when you get these kinds of signs you need to pay attention so I packed up the book and went off to work. During my downtime I revisited a chapter in the book called "Fearsetting". As I began to look at the exercises for the chapter, I remember I had completed it in the past and I remembered my answers.
One morning as I was heading off to work, I got a "hunch" to take a book to work with me called "The 4-Hour Work Week" by Tim Ferris. I had learned that when you get these kinds of signs you need to pay attention so I packed up the book and went off to work. During my downtime I revisited a chapter in the book called "Fearsetting". As I began to look at the exercises for the chapter, I remember I had completed it in the past and I remembered my answers.
One of the questions was in the nature of "if you took a chance on your dreams and lost it all, how would you restore your life back to order?" I remember answering when I didn't have have a vehicle that I would rent a car and began to do courier work to get back on my feet.
Then it hit me!
I finally had a car and I didn't have to wait any longer to get free of my job. I could just begin to drive as a courier and that would free up my time and I would be completely mobile. Yes it would cost me money to do it but all I needed was a way to continue to generate income while pursuing my dreams. It was sort of a bridge strategy to get me to the other side of my goal.
Well, after I got as much as I could in alignment concerning all involved, I took a leap of faith and jumped back in the world of self-employment. I continue to feel great about this choice from the first day I got the inspiration to go for it. I couldn't let anybody's fear deter me from what I was inspired to do and what I felt was intuitively right.
Fast forward to 2 weeks later and I'm still here alive and kicking. I am surviving. Better yet I'm LIVING! I can make my own rules and I am FREE to work when I please. The only thing limiting me is me and whatever challenges I face from here on out, I am not bound by anybody else's limiting work hours.
Does this mean I'm now on easy street? Absolutely not! It means I must work harder but doing work you want to do is much different than doing work you don't want to do. I heard a joke that said when you have your own business you only have to work half days...and you get to pick which 12 hours you want them to be! This is true. There is a lot of sacrifice and you must be self-motivated to succeed.
Also, when there is downtime, I've learned not to waste it. I find some other way to generate money like blogging or writing lyrics which are some of my favorite things to do anyway.
So stepping out on Faith is not a bad idea. I've done it many times in the past and even though this time was a little different because I have a family now, the main principle was the same and that was to trust GOD. There are countless verses in the Bible about Faith and one of them is "Faith without work is dead". To me that means reading the Word of God is one thing. Its good to read but you activate your Faith by living the Word of God and proving it with action. So when you pray, move your feet and trust that you will be guided to go the right way. It all starts with the first step.
Let's Make It Happen!!!
Mello Melanin
